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Baby - Speech and Language Development


Understanding Normal Speech and Language Development
It's important to discuss early speech and language development, as well as other developmental concerns, with your doctor at every routine well-child visit. It can be difficult to tell whether a child is just immature in his or her ability to communicate or has a problem that requires professional attention. These developmental norms may provide clues:

Before 12 Months
It's important for kids this age to be watched for signs that they're using their voices to relate to their environment. Cooing and babbling are early stages of speech development. As babies get older (often around 9 months), they begin to string sounds together, incorporate the different tones of speech, and say words like "mama" and "dada" (without really understanding what those words mean). Before 12 months, children should also be attentive to sound. Babies who watch intently but don't react to sound may be showing signs of hearing loss.

By 12 to 15 Months
Kids this age should have a wide range of speech sounds in their babbling and at least one or more true words (not including "mama" and "dada"). Nouns usually come first, like "baby" and "ball." Your child should also be able to understand and follow single directions ("Please give me the toy," for example).

From 18 to 24 Months
Kids should have a vocabulary of about 20 words by 18 months and 50 or more partial words by the time they turn 2. By age 2, kids should be learning to combine two words, such as "baby crying" or "Daddy big." A 2-year-old should also be able to follow two-step commands (such as "Please pick up the toy and bring me your cup").

From 2 to 3 Years
Parents often witness an "explosion" in their child's speech. Your toddler's vocabulary should increase (to too many words to count) and he or she should routinely combine three or more words into sentences.

Comprehension also should increase — by 3 years of age, a child should begin to understand what it means to "put it on the table" or "put it under the bed." Your child also should begin to identify colors and comprehend descriptive concepts (big versus little, for example).

Warning Signs of a Possible Problem
If you're concerned about your child's speech and language development, there are some things to watch for.
An infant who isn't responding to sound or who isn't vocalizing is of particular concern.

Between 12 and 24 months, reasons for concern include a child who:
-isn't using gestures, such as pointing or waving bye-bye by 12 months
-prefers gestures over vocalizations to communicate by 18 months
-has trouble imitating sounds by 18 months
-has difficulty understanding simple verbal requests

Seek an evaluation if a child over 2 years old:
-can only imitate speech or actions and doesn't produce words or phrases spontaneously
-says only certain sounds or words repeatedly and can't use oral language to communicate more than his or her immediate needs
-can't follow simple directions
-has an unusual tone of voice (such as raspy or nasal sounding)
-is more difficult to understand than expected for his or her age.
Parents and regular caregivers should understand about half of a child's speech at 2 years and about three quarters at 3 years. By 4 years old, a child should be mostly understood, even by people who don't know the child.

What you can do
Reading to your child is a great way to boost speech skills. Books help a child add words to her vocabulary, make sense of grammar, and link meanings to pictures. Ordinary conversation with your 2-year-old helps in similar ways. Mealtimes and bedtime provide nice opportunities to sit and chat in the course of a busy day. Researchers have found that the more words a child hears, the greater her vocabulary will be.

Spend a lot of time communicating with your child, even during infancy — talk, sing, and encourage imitation of sounds and gestures.

Read to your child, starting as early as 6 months. You don't have to finish a whole book, but look for age-appropriate soft or board books or picture books that encourage kids to look while you name the pictures. Try starting with a classic book such as Pat the Bunny, in which the child imitates the patting motion, or books with textures that kids can touch. Later, let your child point to recognizable pictures and try to name them. Then move on to nursery rhymes, which have rhythmic appeal. Progress to predictable books, such as Eric Carle's Brown Bear, Brown Bear, in which your child can anticipate what happens. Your little one may even start to memorize favorite stories.

Use everyday situations to reinforce your child's speech and language. In other words, talk your way through the day. For example, name foods at the grocery store, explain what you're doing as you cook a meal or clean a room, point out objects around the house, and as you drive, point out sounds you hear. Ask questions and acknowledge your child's responses (even when they're hard to understand). Keep things simple, but never use "baby talk."

When to seek help
If by age 2 your child rarely attempts to speak or imitate others, doesn't react when you call her name, or seems uninterested in talking, seek help. If by the end of this year she still says only single words instead of two-to-four-word sentences, uses new words once and then doesn't repeat them frequently, or doesn't ask or respond to simple questions ("What's this?" or "Where's your hat?") then she may also have a speech problem.

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Baby Care – Feeding Bottle Sterilization

Do you need to sterilize baby bottle? Some believe that sterilization is not required with the current supply of water being treated and sanitized. But many parents still play it safe and sterilize their baby’s feeding bottles. Why?

1) In some countries, the water may have been treated but still contain some form of bacteria.

2) Some places, the water source is unknown. For example it may come from a contaminated well.

3) Most tap and well water are not safe for drinking due to heavy industrial and environmental pollution. Toxic bacteria, chemicals and heavy metals routinely penetrate and pollute our natural water sources making people sick while exposing them to long term health consequences such as liver damage, cancer and other serious conditions. We have reached the point where all sources of our drinking water, including municipal water systems, wells, lakes, rivers, and even glaciers, contain some level of contamination. Imagine washing your baby's feeding bottles with this water.

If you are sterilizing your baby’s feeding bottles, having access to a good baby sterilizer is important. The baby's immune system is still developing making them very vulnerable to infection. As a result it is important to take significant precautions to ensure, as far as possible, that they are not exposed to harmful bacteria which could cause illness. One of the most effective ways of protecting your baby is to ensure that all feeding equipments are fully sterile prior to use. By heating water within the sterilization chamber, steam is generated which makes contact with the surfaces of the baby feeding equipment to kill off any harmful bacteria. Traditional methods such as boiling in water do of course still work. However, using a baby sterilizer is much more convenient and easy.

We have been using Philips Avent Electric Steam Sterilizer for close to 2 years now. No problems so far and we are very satisfied with it.

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Signs of a Bad Nanny

Choosing the right nanny for your child can be difficult, sometimes. Detecting an unsuitable nanny early will ease you of more headaches in the future. How do we know if the nanny is suitable? Here are some hints:

Your child is often involved in accidents and injured.
Your child is not happy or cries when being with the nanny.
Your child’s nanny is unsure of your child daily routine.
You caught the nanny lying.
Your requests on how care should be given to your child are neglected.
Your child looks messy and dirty.
Your child is not healthy when under her care.
Your child’s nanny is inconsistent with attendance or often shows up late.
Your child’s nanny frequently complains about your child and telling you how difficult it is to take care of your child.

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Benefits of Baby Massage


Apart from fostering parent-child connection, giving your baby a massage has been shown to help calm him down, improve sleep patterns and aid digestion. It's also a loving way for moms, dads, older siblings, grandparents and other caregivers to share special time with the new baby.

Gentle massage also promotes the growth and development of premature babies. One study found that premature babies who were massaged for 15 minutes, three times a day for two weeks gained almost 50 % more weight, were more alert and active, and were discharged 6 days earlier from the hospital than premature infants who were not massaged.

Most babies love to be touched and most parents love to touch their babies so enjoy the massage process. Use this intimate session to talk to your baby. Tell him what you are doing and ask for permission even if your baby cannot give verbal consent yet. Start with a short session at first, no more than about five minutes. You can gradually lengthen your massage sessions when your little one becomes familiar with the ritual over time. And remember to watch your baby's reactions and body language for feedback. Look out for signs of enjoyment (smiles, coos) or discomfort (fussing, turning away) and stop if he seems uncomfortable. Respect your baby's signals.

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What is BPA?




Bisphenol A, commonly abbreviated as BPA, is an organic compound with two phenol functional groups. It is a difunctional building block of several important plastics and plastic additives.

Suspected of being hazardous to humans since the 1930s, concerns about the use of bisphenol A in consumer products were regularly reported in the news media in 2008 after several governments issued reports questioning its safety, and some retailers have removed products made of it from their shelves.

Recent reports suggest that the chemical bisphenol A (BPA) in the plastics used to make many types of baby bottles could cause behavioral changes in babies or contribute to early onset of puberty in girls. Further study is needed on the exact effects of BPA in humans, but many parents are switching to BPA-free bottles just to be on the safe side.

Bisphenol-A (BPA) continues to make headlines, more than a year after the National Toxicology Program draft report. Many parents are still struggling to figure out which bottles and sippy cups are BPA-free, and whether or not the chemical is of great concern to them. The most recent research on BPA and baby indicates that it may be harder than you think to find a BPA-free bottle for you or baby, but also that finding those BPA-free products for the whole family may be more important than ever.

BPA Linked with Aggression in Toddler Girls
A study from the University of North Carolina - Chapel Hill and Canada's Simon Fraser University shows that BPA's estrogen-mimicking tendencies may have far-reaching consequences. The study followed nearly 250 women throughout their pregnancies and then also evaluated their children. The women who showed the highest concentrations of BPA in their urine at 16 weeks pregnant had more aggressive, hyperactive daughters than those with lower concentrations of BPA. BPA exposure has been linked to neurological changes, diabetes and asthma, among other conditions, but previously much of the research focused on postnatal exposure. Past research has shown that prenatal exposure to BPA can affect the sex differences in mice, including affecting aggression among young females.

Even after hours of our own research on the internet, there are no conclusive facts confirming the danger of BPA. However, we are not taking any chances. We have since switched to MAM’s BPA free baby bottles for Keith.


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To Test OR Not To Test ?


My 1st pregnancy, my 1st baby meant a lot more to me...

I never forget the mixed feelings I had to carry along through out the whole pregnancy. Many thanks to my husband and my family who supported me along the pregnancy journey.

Every woman in the beginning of pregnancy will always have this doubt: will my baby be healthy? This anxiety is common for those who conceive at the age of 30 and above. Besides carrying out regular gynecological examinations, several screening and diagnosis have become a must for most reproductive woman.

I had my first pregnancy at the age of 29. Without any specific medical history or reason, I accepted the suggestion of my gynae to have a “Triple Test” screening.

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Happy Family


I'll never forget seeing my mother’s tears when my angry father kept on shouting. I just hid at the corner and did nothing. I have no idea of what was happening. As I was just a little kid, the anxiety and fear are overwhelming. Incidents like this happened almost every week… …
Why my parents always quarrel? How can I stop them from arguing? I wish they could spend more time to pamper me……

A new study conducted by researchers at the universities of Rochester, Syracuse and Notre Dame, confirmed that children upset by quarrelling parents tend to encounter problems at school, because they are unable to concentrate on allotted tasks, due to the children’s concerns about their parents’ relationship.
In time of stress, we really need to figure out how to handle our emotions carefully to avoid argument especially in front of our children. Efforts to identify and navigate around the notorious argument trigger zones within daily family life are important.

Below are the Tips to the Happy Family path taken from
Article Source: Adwina D. Jackson
Who doesn’t want a happy family? Everyone is longing for that, beyond anything. Yet, there are some who fail during the process. However, those who fail must have missed these tips—the quickest ways possible to maintain a happy family—:

• Mom-Dad relationship
Mom, Dad, it all starts with you. Yes, the central point of a happy family is in the relationship between mother and father, husband and wife. So, if you plan to live a happy life with your family, try to ensure that you have a beautiful connection with your spouse.

• Bring laughter to your family
Spend more time with your kids. Get them to play with you, watch funny children movies, or simply tickle each other. Laughter is a great way to create connection among family members. Do you know that a family spending cheerful and quality time together helps lessen possibility of needless conflicts?

• Avoid financial problems
Try very hard not to cause your family suffer from any financial issue. Balance the income and expense. If the income is less than the expense, then no argue about it. Instead, find ways or solution to solve the problem. Arguing is getting you nowhere. It even might cause another problem with your children.

• Raise your children happily
Don’t ever think that the children are a burden. Yes, it’s true that they are your responsibility. But, they are not a burden. They are a blessing. There are many couples out there dying to have children of their own. And, it is not wise to look at your children as a burden. To have happy children, you must raise them in a happy way.

• Focus on your blessings
In this life, it is impossible that you, or you family, have no misfortune. Yet, why should you focus on that? Instead, why don’t you concentrate on your blessings? It is easier if you wish a happy life, a happy family. Encourage all members of your family to be thankful for what they have. As a result, everyone will be happy.

Isn’t it easy having a happy family? So, what’s the waiting for? Start now, for your happy lovely family!


Toddler Behaviour

As a newbie in parenting, I find it difficult to get my boy to listen. I have to yell or hit him and sometimes both to stop his misbehaviour. However, it works only for that moment. Subsequent to that, he will repeat again. The worse is, he mimics my action. Whenever he is not happy with something, he will hit at anything around him and mumble “beat..beat” or “ta..ta”….
Then only I became aware. I am not showing a good example! Things change when I started to portray my good behavior in front of him.
This saying is really true… The character of your children tomorrow depends on what you put into their hearts today.

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